“Are you wearing mascara?”

In a development that is, to me, as exciting as the invention of the DVD itself, Kicking and Screaming finally will see its day in digital beauty with its long-awaited DVD release on August 22 – on Criterion Collection, no less. (No, not that Kicking and Screaming.)

Written and directed by Noah Baumbach (he of The Squid and the Whale fame), Kicking and Screaming (1995) is, quite simply, my favorite movie. The story deals with a group of friends who have graduated college but remain on/near the campus in their misguided attempts to reconcile the end of their college days and the start of the so-called real world. (“What I used to be able to pass off as a bad summer could now potentially turn into a bad life.”)

It’s not a stretch to consider it a coming-of-age film, which is a major reason I attached such importance to it. Like so many great albums (Built to Spill’s Perfect from Now On and Richard Buckner’s Bloomed to name but two), Kicking and Screaming was very consoling in those awkward “What-shall-I-do-with-my-life” moments prior to and shortly after graduation.

It’s not quite as dramatic as it sounds, but nothing is so forgiving and comforting as a movie or album that seems to reflect your own place in life. For me, that meant traveling to Milwaukee (“Live in Milwaukee. Live … in … Milwaukee”) for an internship after graduation, pondering where I’d end up in a newspaper business that encourages “paying dues” (i.e., working in Smallville, USA, or, worse, Lubbock, Texas) and being miles apart from my then-girlfriend (who is now my wife; so I guess that worked out, eh?).

In Kicking and Screaming, the main character, Grover (Josh Hamilton), is job-hunting and trying to cope with losing his girlfriend, who has left to live in Prague. (“Oh, I’ve been to Prague.”) On top of that, his parents are in the middle of a divorce, a topic that Baumbach revisits in The Squid.

My patience is such that I rarely watch the same movie over and over. Yet I’ve seen Kicking and Screaming at least no less than 10 times. (That’s not including endless times citing lines from the movie ad nauseam, a habit that is reflected on the DVD cover, so I must not be the only one.) I think it was one of the first pieces of art in which I realized a movie or a song or an album can be something more than a cheap form of entertainment. It’s a movie driven by the strength of its dialogue and context. Obviously, a 16-year-old in high school won’t derive the same meaning from it as a newly graduated 20-something. That said, the writing, full of intelligent, sarcastic wit and wry humor, can be appreciated no matter the circumstance.

While in Milwaukee, I distinctly remember having very lengthy e-mail discussions with my brother, who was going through a bit of transitional period himself by moving to Boston for law school. A few days later, I got a package from him. He sent me his copy of Kicking and Screaming (on VHS, of course) with a note: “Sounds like you need this more than I do.” I still have the tape (and probably the note).

I also remember signing an online petition at a now-defunct official Web site for Baumbach (www.noahbaumbach.com, if I remember correctly) pleading for the movie’s release on DVD. This has been a topic among friends of ours literally for years. With so much garbage on DVD, how could they not release Kicking and Screaming? Perhaps it took a movie like The Squid and the Whale for someone to backtrack and appreciate Baumbach’s catalog (K&S was his directorial debut).

Whatever, I’m confident this will be worth my wait. Features include an assortment of goodies: deleted scenes, interviews, director-approved digital transfer, theatrical trailer, etc.

One final point: I absolutely resent that every time someone asks me what my favorite movie is, I have to qualify it by saying, “No, not the Will Ferrell Kicking and Screaming.” How can a movie title be so easily copped like that with no respect to the original? Anyone have answers?

Pre-order Kicking and Screaming (the good one) at Amazon.

Cue: Grover and Jane drunk at bar near end of the movie …

Jimmie Dale Gilmore | Braver Newer World

(mp3 found at Some Velvet Blog. Thanks!)

12 thoughts on ““Are you wearing mascara?””

  1. My favourite movie is probably the documentary Paradise Lost. I was quite simply staggered by it.

    Free the West Memphis Three!

  2. well im convinced now to pre-order this. i loved the squid and the whale, and it sounds like i’ll enjoy this too.


  3. This is the first time I’ve ever checked out your blog, and the first thing I read is news on what may be my favorite film of all time, and certainly my most long-awaited DVD. Thanks for making my day.

    Great job.

  4. Also my favorite film.

    For many similar reasons.

    And also my most awaited DVD.

    It took me years to find “Highball” (directed by Baumbach as ‘Ernie Fusco’) on DVD, and with the arrival of this, I think I’ve nothing left to quest for.

  5. Oh My God, I wet my pants when I viewed this post, I have long suffered in silence that this gem is not on dvd and now that it will be has made my year, plus it is getting the criterion treatment! Mega post!

  6. Nice. Glad I could convince people. You will not be disappointed, Rachael.

    Storm, thanks for the heads up on Highball. I had no clue. Off to scour the Web now!

  7. this post actually warranted my brother calling me and making sure i ran home to read it. best news ever.

  8. I love this movie too! I’ve been meaning to rewatch it, but no I’ll wait for the DVD!

  9. here is the listing of my favorite movies on my blog profile:
    Favorite Movies
    Kicking and Screaming (not the will farrell one)

    now i can finally throw out my poorly vhs to vhs taped copy of the movie!!!

  10. Absolutely my favorite too. I have stumbled upon this blog via KEXP. Im glad to know the film will be available finaly. Ive been searching for this dvd for years.

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